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One pattern a day
A single pattern about what happened inside you. Short enough to keep doing, long enough to reveal a pattern after two weeks.
Notice — Which words keep repeating.
LMFT | Anxiety Management Coach & Therapist
Toolbox
Ways of noticing patterns and progress.
Tracking here means attention, not measurement. The point is to see what is actually happening — not to grade yourself on it.
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A single pattern about what happened inside you. Short enough to keep doing, long enough to reveal a pattern after two weeks.
Notice — Which words keep repeating.
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Situation, reaction, what you did next. Three fields, no analysis. The analysis becomes obvious once there are ten entries.
Notice — The situations that show up again and again.
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Mark what gave energy and what took it. Most people know their to-do list far better than their own conditions.
Notice — What you keep choosing that consistently costs you.
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Note which practice you tried and whether it helped, did nothing, or made things harder. Honest "no" answers are the useful ones.
Notice — What earns a permanent place, and what doesn't.