Toolbox

TOOLS.

Things I use or explore—described plainly, with a label that tells you exactly how much weight to give them.

Personal experience, professional practice, curiosity, and research are not the same thing. The labels keep that distinction visible.

How to read this page

From my professional toolbox
A psychological, behavioral, mindfulness, relationship, or mental-wellbeing practice used within my professional competence.
I use this
Something I personally use.
Worth exploring
Something I find interesting and believe may be worth learning more about.
Research-backed practice
Used only when evidence supports the specific intervention.
Personal experience
A personal lifestyle or wellness experience, not a treatment recommendation.

Personal experience

For the body

Breath, movement, warmth, cold, light, sleep. The least glamorous tools and usually the most reliable, because state comes before insight.

Personal experience

For attention

Timers, single-task setups, phone-free windows, and anything that makes distraction slightly less automatic.

Personal experience

For reflection

Paper, prompts, voice notes. A way of hearing your own thinking instead of circling it.

From my professional toolbox

For nervous system support

Grounding, orienting, and simple regulation practices used before problem-solving, not instead of it.

Worth exploring

Apps and wearables

Useful when they increase awareness, unhelpful when they become another way to score yourself. She keeps testing where that line sits.

Worth exploring

Emerging approaches

Newer methods, devices and ideas she is reading about and watching carefully before saying anything stronger.

Some resources shared here reflect my personal experience, curiosity, and ongoing learning rather than clinical recommendations. Information is provided for educational purposes and is not medical advice. Supplements, medical devices, and health-related products may not be appropriate for everyone. Please consult an appropriately qualified healthcare professional regarding your individual needs.

A note

A tool is only useful if it changes what you actually do.